Countering Criticism

Proverbs 2:2-3, 9-11

Tune your ears to wisdom,
    and concentrate on understanding.

Cry out for insight,
    and ask for understanding.

Then you will understand what is right, just, and fair,
    and you will find the right way to go.

For wisdom will enter your heart,
    and knowledge will fill you with joy. 

Wise choices will watch over you.
    Understanding will keep you safe.

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If the criticism is fair – heed it  

Proverbs 15:31-32 (NLT) – If you listen to constructive criticism, you will be at home among the wise.  If you reject discipline, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding.

If the criticism is unfair – address it  

Proverbs 15:1 – A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

If the criticism is invalid – dismiss it

1 Peter 2:23 – When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly.

If the criticism is distracting – rebuke it

Acts 4:19 – Peter and John replied, “Which is right in God’s eyes: to listen to you, or to him? You be the judges!

If the criticism is “mine” – overcome it 

Proverbs 12:18 (NLT) – Some people make cutting remarks, but the words of the wise bring healing.